Saturday, September 12, 2009

34 Weeks 6 Days: Nesting Instinct

I can't remember when was the last time i cleaned out my sty so thoroughly. The attention to detail is so strong and i don't know where the extra energy came from. I was like packing and scrubbing. Took out every single item from my storeroom, resorted, wiped and packed again. I just need to get my place into a clean room condition. It seems to also affect my hubby. Normally when i do housework, he will be oblivious to what i'm doing. But he actually chipped in to help. Even help me chase out the resident lizard in the store. Usually, he will not throw junk away (i will do it secretly behind his back), but yesterday he was buang-ing things like no one's business. We went Ikea and bought many packing boxes to store our things (he was actually encouraging me, cos usually he will comment, boxes to store things, buy so nice for what). Hehe, i'm so so surprised by his change. So while the "heat" is still on, on my list, next is to clear up ..... *evil laughter* I am glad that the fussiness and demand for excellence did not drive him crazy. But now, my back is very sng from all the cleaning.

I am so glad that i stay in a 2-bedroom apartment after all the back breaking, but extremely satisfying house scrubs. But it's a good thing that this happened, otherwise my place will not be so speckless and organized.

I can't say more the stuff i did, but well, a pictures speaks a thousand words. Here are five...





That Nesting Instinct During Pregnancy
Reorganizing the closets, alphabetizing the spice rack, and thwarting dust-bunny breeding efforts under the bed? Welcome to a pre-labor ritual that helps get your home ready for the baby, and helps you pass the time.

Mother hamsters do it. Mama cats and dogs do it. Expectant birds do it. And, if you’re like many human moms-to-be, you’re doing it, too, these days: preparing your "nest" for your soon-to-arrive baby. Though it’s fortunately not manifested in the same behaviors (you’re more likely to recycle that pile of newspapers than shred them or reach for the feather duster rather than the feathers), the nesting instinct in humans can be as powerful as it is for our animal friends. Productive, as well — driving many human moms-to-be to sweep out the garage, pair up all the stray socks that have wandered into the Laundry Room Bermuda Triangle, defrost the frost-free refrigerator, and brighten the bathroom grout lines with a toothbrush. If the nesting instinct hits your nest, make the most of it — now, before life becomes too hectic and before finding a moment to shower (and rinse thoroughly) will be challenging enough.


Nesting
Have you noticed that you have the urge to clean everything in sight lately? Are you rushing around your house, completing the ironing, reorganizing the cupboards, or color-coding your wardrobe? If so, then you might be experiencing what is commonly referred to as the nesting instinct. The nesting instinct is a frequent occurrence throughout pregnancy, and is often a sign that you are about to welcome your baby in to the world! But why do pregnant women experience this nesting instinct and is it safe and healthy for you and baby? Here are some of the basics about the nesting experience during pregnancy!

What is the Nesting Instinct?

The nesting instinct is the name given to the distinctive urge to clean, tidy, and organize that occurs during pregnancy. One of the many pregnancy symptoms that you will experience, the nesting instinct generally kicks in around the fifth month of pregnancy, however it can also occur much earlier or much later. Many women acutely experience the nesting instinct in the final days of their pregnancy, and this can often be a sign that labor and delivery is close at hand. Nesting tends to vary from woman to woman; in fact, some women don’t experience the nesting instinct at all when they are pregnant. Others experience mild forms of the instinct while others feel the urge much more severely.


What Causes the Nesting Instinct?

The nesting urge in pregnancy is thought to be caused by both biological and emotional factors.
Most females in the animal kingdom experience similar patterns of cleaning and preparation when they are pregnant. From birds to bears, female animals appear to have an intrinsic need to prepare ahead of time for their new arrival. It is believed that females are programmed to experience this nesting instinct in order to ensure that their offspring will be cared for properly after birth. By having your baby’s room ready, all her clothes organized, and her meals planned, you are ensuring that your baby will have the best chance for growth and survival after birth.
The nesting instinct probably also involves emotional components as well. Pregnancy is a time of intense hormonal fluctuations, and these changes can cause you to act in crazy ways! As your hormones settle down in the second trimester, you may feel increasingly energized and excited about your baby’s birth. This can incite many women to begin cleaning, organizing, and planning for their baby’s arrival. Furthermore, social expectations also play a role in the nesting instinct. Parents are often expected to do special things for their baby’s arrival, including decorating a nursery, cleaning house, and purchasing new clothes.


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